itself is no longer considered unusual in many communities. In fact, many guests now prefer giving money because it allows couples to use it however they choose.

However, there is

a major difference between politely expressing a preference for cash gifts and demanding a required minimum amount.

Why the “Cover Your Plate” Rule Is So Controversial

The “cover your plate” concept comes from the idea that guests should give enough money to match what the couple spent hosting them at the wedding reception.

For example:

• If dinner costs $150 per

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