• for dinner
• Being valued based on money

This can shift attention away from the emotional meaning of the wedding itself.

3. Guests May Already Be Spending Money to Attend

Destination weddings and formal events can already cost guests hundreds of dollars in travel and preparation expenses.

Some etiquette experts note that couples should appreciate attendance itself, especially when guests make

significant efforts to be there.

Why Some People Still Defend the Practice

Despite criticism, some communities still view “covering your plate” as normal or culturally expected.

In certain traditions, weddings

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